If when people are not popular to others what is it called that's the secondary thing to that? If just acceptable or 'known' or well liked etc..IS there some street smarts words for that too? I know some people that are respected and it seem because they know how to get what they want. 

I am figuring one gets respect if one just simply pushes his weight around. Or I mean he over powers others and wins the cards thus.Sadly I might try it but trying not to really try that same time. 

I don't know if it's the wording you chose, but I am figuring one gets respect if one just simply pushes his weight around. Or I mean he over powers others sure sounds like a bully.

You seem like too nice a guy to stoop to that level. 

Miso well I guess it seems some know how to do that and hold things but I'm just guessing and being a bully is just bad I agree.I'd kind of think what is driving stuff today is an 'amoral' world in sense nobody cares if somethings right or not.But that is not the best way , at the same time.Or it is being a simpler mind as I once was. I am a big reader now [I know too much ].I had to be in the know because people are clever and cons.