asking WHY do most females have to 'smother' males?? My apartments I know this lady if I'm at her place just visiting she has to smother her visitors to death! And another way she does it gives another a lecture on why they should take college classes as she does and get degrees [which I'm not bashing the basic idea, but she should keep that to herself and have 'healthier' relationships with people to let them feel relaxed and at home around her ] .It almost seems because she's from Cape Cod area she does this or it's not that [hope not] .. 

People would rather be liked for who they are and not even receive a kind of 'adult' peer-pressure to conform against their needed rightful comforts.. 

To reiterate this = people telling others they need something and have to think within the other's BOX .. IS WHY I LIKE LETTING PEOPLE feel free to live life wherever they are. Smothering is pushy thing I feel. 

so solutions would be to 'communicate' outside the box and take time to express or word out feelings or concepts.